Frequently, we’re told to work on our Inner Selves to get the Outer World to look as we’d like.
(That’s a rough oversimplification of the advice but you get the point.)
Jason Leister has a take on this that goes the other way around:
Reinventing Yourself From The Outside In
His article below clarifies what he means quite nicely.
But I’ll boil it down a hair for you:
If you want to be something, start doing the actions of that thing.
Excepting brain surgeons, and such, you’re pretty much free to do some version of whatever professional title it is you’d like to own.
There are plenty of jobs and careers that can get underway simply by starting from scratch, then figuring it out as you go.
If nothing else, I’ve found that this is how most jobs go anyhow.
You start with a basic understanding of the necessary skill sets and the rest…you wing!
You learn as you go…BY DOING!
In the job world, this is called being Thrown To The Wolves. Another approach: you learn to swim by sinking or swimming after you’ve been tossed in the lake.
What’s found inside Outsiders Journey is nothing more than example after example of this very lesson in action.
This site is hogmungous! It has systems integrated left and right to do all it does, most of which you can’t even see.
And I’ve been reinventing it for years on end!
It’s had other systems come and go that were awesome but somehow became incongruous with my needs.
It was all hard to locate, learn, and implement. But I did it. Many, many times over. And it all functioned well!
But I didn’t go to school to learn how to do any of it (excepting some AWAI courses I took awhile back).
I just got frustrated (usually) and started reinventing the infuriating section…again and again and again.
Point is, if you want to be something, start by physically acting as that thing and pick up steam as you go.
For all you know, you’re already the best person to do whatever it is you wish you could do.
So just start doing it!
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- We’re normally told to do the Inner Work to create the Outer World we desire. But the reverse can also be true.
- You become something by acting like it!
- Who certifies the certifiers? Just do it!
- You’re free to reinvent yourself at any time. Just start.
- Outsiders Journey is my living, breathing version of my multiple reinventions.
- I share what I’ve learned through all these reinventions, including the current one, to help other Outsiders go pro with whatever it is that differentiates them from the herd.
- The more you pick at it, the closer you get to being it.
- Some of you are going to find the works of Steven Pressfield to be in credibly helpful in all this.
- “You Do You“: My free course outlining all I’ve done to completely rebuild my world into something it’s never been…something much better than what it used to be!
- The War Of Art: I’ve read this book about 4 or 5 times now. But I no longer remember the particulars.
What I can tell you is: if you’re struggling to do the thing that needs doing; the thing that gnaws at you in your dreams and nightmares.
The thing that whispers to you while you’re at your shitty job; the thing that makes the rest of your life impossible, but you haven’t addressed yet, then get this book.
- Turning Pro: Tap Your Inner Power and Create Your Life’s Work: I’ve read this book about 4 or 5 times as well. And I no longer remember the particulars.
What I can tell you is: once you’ve made the decision to start your thing and have been doing at for some time, you will eventually build a body of work that lights the rest of the way forward.
This book will help you start building the new you, the you who is capable of handling the new stresses this outlook will bring your way.
- Do the Work: Overcome Resistance and Get Out of Your Own Way: I’ve also read this book about 4 or 5 times. And I no longer remember the particulars.
What I can tell you is: maybe you’ve reached the point where the ideas are flowing and a lot of projects are getting kicked off…but never completed.
You keep running into The Wall. Been there so many fucking times myself that it a personal cliche at this point.
Steven Pressfield will again provide you with the motivation and plan to move forward past that little voice in your head that’s fucking with you. (Have I mentioned yet that Steven’s a former-Marine, like myself. Hmmm.)
- Photographer of top image: Malte Wingen
[The following article is reprinted with permission from Jason Leister at www.IncomparableExpert.com]
Reinventing Yourself From the Outside In
By Jason Leister
One day, in my mid-twenties, I woke up and realized I was living someone else’s life. I didn’t like what I was doing and I knew I needed to make a change.
I had a faint idea of what that change was supposed to be—I had a fuzzy picture of the person I wanted to become. Unfortunately, I had no idea how to make it happen. I had no idea how to jumpstart and fuel the reinvention to transform myself into the person I pictured in my mind.
If you’ve ever been in a situation like this, you never forget the amount of frustration and even anger you walk around with. It’s a ton of energy bottled up inside your gut. It’s enough to make you crazy.
What follows is the story of how I discovered the way through… of how I reinvented myself, from the outside in. And it’s a story I offer in an effort to show you that you can do the very same thing.
You could say I wasn’t comfortable in my own life at the time. I clearly believed that I was living on what was pretty much the only NON-green patch of grass in the universe. Had I taken a step in any direction, the grass would have been greener.
Back then, I was a musician. And for some reason, all I could dream about was becoming a business person. I didn’t even really understand what that meant. But I knew what it looked like. Or at least I thought I did.
Every weekend, my wife-to-be and I would travel to a local coffee shop where I’d see business people from Xerox and other big companies reading the paper. I worked on the weekends (at church) and they relaxed on the weekends. That was enough to get me interested in their lifestyle.
I’d see them reading business articles, working on their laptops, surrounded by papers and important looking things. I also ventured a guess that their prospects for making money were far better than mine would ever be as a church organist. (I was definitely right about that one.)
I knew that I wanted to “reinvent” myself, but I had no clue about how that was supposed to happen. At the time, I had no concept of the word reinvention, I just knew that deep down, I wanted to be something I currently wasn’t.
I had a few things working against me and my desire to get into the world of business. The environment I grew up in was pretty clear about its view of successful business people. They were greedy, selfish and bad. Money was evil, business people were worse. Oh, and they all took advantage of other poor disadvantaged souls in order to create their success.
I was definitely at a distinct disadvantage for getting a business career off the ground.
But then I got an internship with a salesman from AT&T. Over the few years I worked with him, I learned a lot. I wasn’t a “business man” by any stretch of the imagination, but I was working in business.
I had no clue how to sell anything, and yet I was working with a salesman who depended on that skill to eat and care for his family.
I had zero formal qualifications for being in meetings with customers or working on accounts in the back office. And yet, there I was, doing those very things.
Eventually I started designing websites, which led to marketing, copywriting and the information marketing world of business.
The process took years. But now that I’m able to look back, I can actually see how it all unfolded pretty clearly.
As it turns out, I’ve discovered that problems are often far simpler than my mind makes them out to be.
Here’s a quick example:
Want to be a writer? Should you go to writing school, get a creative writing degree, or perhaps apply for some internship program somewhere? That’s often the path your mind goes down when faced with a challenge. Your mind needs to feel needed. And so it takes you on some longwinded journey that requires it be involved with each step of the journey. It makes work for itself (and you) so it can feed its ego.
But if you really want to become a writer, then how about you just sit down and start writing? Instant writer.
You reinvent yourself from the outside in. And thinking about it that way really cuts to the heart of the matter: your reinvention will commence as a response to the actions you take.
So why not just start there… with the actions?
The most powerful actions are those you do daily. Can you think of an action you could do daily? Something that’s done by those you are wishing to be like?
There is a huge amount of power in actions you repeat on a daily basis. Those daily actions, while new at the beginning, quickly disappear into the fabric of what you consider normal life. Days go by… weeks go by.
That’s when beautiful things happen. You wake up one day and realize that your “reinvention” is much farther along than you imagined.
One day I was a classical musician, soon after I became a business person.
The core of who I am changed. But it didn’t change from the inside out, it happened from the outside in.
I’ve discovered that there is nothing magical about the process of reinvention. It is simply the product of real work. Again, daily work is best.
There is no reason to wait. This is your life that is ticking by—moment by moment. Once this moment is gone, it is not coming back.
Want to be someone you’re not? Then be that today. Do the work, rinse and repeat, and you’ll blow by everyone else in no time.
[Ed. Note. Jason Leister is a direct response copywriter, internet entrepreneur and editor of the daily e-letter, The Incomparable Expert Daily Journal, where he empowers independent professionals who work with clients. He has seven kids and lives and works in the mountains of Arizona.]
The photographer of the reinventing top image: Stephen Sandian